~A Touch of Whimsy~

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Today is our oldest daughter’s 15th birthday!  It’s hard to believe that so many years have already passed.  She is growing into a beautiful young lady. 
For her birthday this year, she had a couple of friends over for a sleepover.  Instead of my just making her a cake, I baked a bunch of cupcakes and they each picked out a color for some icing, and then they all decorated their own.  We also had my parents and my soon-to-be adopted brothers and a friend of theirs here  = 8 kids in all.
Our kids: Melia, Katie & Michael
Melia’s friends:  Bridget & Brittany
My new soon-to-be adopted brothers: Dallas & Travis, and a friend of theirs, Ryan.
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Each one had a blast decorating their own. 
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As you can see from the colors, they all chose bright, vivid colors. 
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But they all turned out great!  
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There was so much laughing and memory making going on. 
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A cake made my mom is great, but getting in there to make it yourself with your friends is even better! 
IMG_0026 Happy 15th Birthday, Melia!  I pray that you will allow Christ to guide your steps as you prepare to enter the world of adulthood.  May God grant you the wisdom that you need to always make the right choices, and may you always put Him first in your life. 
Love,
Mom

Update From My Haven….

 

Boy, it has been a CRAZY summer for me!  We’ve haven’t gone on vacation, but I’m not sure we could have squeezed one in this year!  It has been so hectic.  Here’s a quick summary of what we’ve been up to.

In June, Melia & Katie went to AWANA camp and had a ball. That was 7 full days of just Michael and me at home by ourselves during the day, and then Brian when he came home in the evenings.  One of those days, we took Michael to see Toy Story 3 in 3-D!  It was an awesome movie, and we had such a great time together.  They were all home for a week and then they went to spend a week with my parents.  Talk about a quiet house!  I almost didn’t know what to do with myself.  Almost.   But I sure did miss them.  As nice as the peace and quiet was, it was nice to have all the chaos back.  They all had a great time. 

In fact, when we picked them on Saturday, we surprised Katie with a small birthday party!  And boy was she surprised!  It was nice to get together with family for a couple of hours and eat cake and ice cream.  It’s hard to believe that she turned 12 this year.   Where has the time gone? 

After that, I spent the next week working on my baby cousin’s wedding cake.  I can’t believe she’s all grown up either!  It seems like just yesterday she was the little flower girl in my wedding, standing up there, looking for her quarters (they showed her were to stand) and swinging her basket back and forth.  But, she’s all grown up and now a married woman.  She had a very pretty wedding and was a beautiful bride.  I wish her and Matt all the love and blessing and happiness that they deserve & more! 

That brings us to this week.  This week, Brian’s sister and her family from Illinois are in.  They actually came in this past Saturday.  We got got together for a cookout at his other sister’s house, and I surprised her with a birthday cake (her birthday was last week).  She had no idea!  So, lots of happy times and sad times in store this week as Brian and his brother and sisters are going through their mom’s things. 

As for me, well, my job has taken a not-so-nice turn and is really giving me grief.  It is causing me to be up until 2, 3, or even 4 o’clock in the morning working and then getting back up by 8 a.m.(soon to be 6:30 with school starting back).  I’m staying exhausted all of the time and having a hard time keeping up with everything.   We’re praying that God will open up a door to somehow allow all of this to change. 

That pretty much brings you up to speed.  Next week, I have one more wedding cake to do that I had committed to last fall.  We also have school starting up on August 9.   Melia, our oldest daughter, will be staying in public school while Katie and Michael will be staying home and we will be homeschooling them.  It’s definitely going to be an adventure!   And then, on to AWANA at church! 

Even through all of the craziness of life, God continues to bless us and watch over us.  I know that He has everything under control, and all I need to do is be stop, listen, be patient, and let Him take the lead in everything we do. 

~How to Keep Your Children Occupied Once School Is Out~

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I do know that I am very fortunate to be able to work from home and, in turn, be home with my children and not have to worry about childcare. I am very blessed to be able to be involved in my children’s lives on a daily basis like I am. However, they are still kids and will still “get bored” and “have nothing to do”. But, I do not plan to let boredom turn into watching TV all day or playing on the computer/Wii all day while they are home from school. I do not allow that during the school year and I definitely will not  allow it during the summer months. So, what do I do to keep my children occupied? We do have season passes to a local amusement park and a local aquarium, but we do not plan on spending all of our time inside.
When they were smaller, we would make lots of homemade play dough and I would let them have whatever kitchen utensils they wanted to use (unless it was a more expensive piece, that is) and just play to their heart’s content. I also kept a craft box handy filled with lots of pipe cleaners, pompoms, Popsicle sticks, construction paper, glue, paper towel/ toilet paper rolls, glitter, stencils, etc., and would put them outside on the back porch and let them use their imaginations. I even kept water-soluble paints and brushes on hand, and on time we painted river rocks! I still keep a lot of these items on hand, but they are getting bigger and not wanting to do that as much as they used to. Now, I have one that loves to draw and one that loves to paint, and one that loves to do both. We try very hard to encourage our children to be creative in all that they do.
A lady I spoke to recently said she used to let her children finger paint on the kitchen floor (vinyl flooring) because they could be as messy as they wanted and then she would just mop it up when they were done! What a great idea! I never thought of that one, but I used to blow bubbles in the house for my kids when they were little. Don’t worry, it is not messy or hard to clean up unless you spill them. The kids have a blast trying to pop the bubbles, and it is something different from just blowing them outside.
They also love to ride their bikes around the yard. We are blessed to have acreage for them to ride on. We will also make a sprinkler for them to play in when it is hot but we cannot go anywhere that day. Take a clean, used gallon-sized milk jug and punch holes in the bottom. Run hose over a tree limb and place the nozzle of the hose in the top and tape. Turn on the hose and you have a frugal, homemade sprinkler! Of course, there is also the lake when we can.
Another outing that we plan to do this summer is go play a few games of putt-putt at a small local business. The prices are very reasonable and it’s close to home. I know not everyone has this option but make sure and check around locally to see what your area offers in the way of activities for families. Don’t forget to check out local parks. Make sure that, in the hotter months, to go early in the morning before it gets too hot and the mosquitoes become to pesky to enjoy your time outdoors, and take lots of water to keep everyone hydrated.
Make sure and plan a family day/night. Take turns picking a board game to play or a movie to watch. Pop popcorn, fix favorite drinks and snacks, and just enjoy spending time together and catching up on each others lives. Make sure and plan your days accordingly. Try to plan something to do inside on the days that it is supposed to rain and your outdoor activities when it is supposed to be clear.
I hope this helps you come up with some ideas on how to entertain your children. Please remember to tailor activities to be age-appropriate for your child(ren), and have a wonderful summer!